He'll:
text me good morning and sweet dreams and good night.
text me "Made it" when he gets to work; and "Free" when he leaves his work so I know to worry if I hear about a wreck on his way.
Let me borrow his socks out of his drawer and he'll check for spiders and not laugh or roll his eyes that he ALWAYS has to check EVERYTHING for spiders for me.
put said socks on my feet and rub both of my feet when he is finished just for good measure.
Let me borrow his comfy tee-shirt and butter soft work out pants to sleep in when I stay over.
He will take my hand and lead me to the bedroom when he's ready for bed.
He'll kiss me, often.
He'll tell me he likes me because that is as important as I love you and he knows that about me already.
He'll let me have the shower head first and stand in the cold waiting for me.
He'll close the bathroom door so when I get out of the shower I won't freeze.
He'll hold my hand in the truck or in public when it's appropriate.
He'll bring my lunch up to work just to visit with me and make sure I eat.
He'll cook/grill for me.
He'll know I want to run his errands with him JUST to spend time in his presence and not get mad.
He'll tell me if my butt looks cute in those jeans or not.
He'll record my Sunday shows on his dvr even when I am not there to watch them because he knows I'll want to watch them to fall asleep to the next time I stay over.
He'll be goofy sometimes and let me be goofy all the time.
He'll make sure I am safe in a parking lot or busy street.
He'll teach me things I don't know, and not make fun of me for not knowing everything.
He'll make me feel like he wouldn't want to be anywhere else but there with me.
So that's my "list", that's what I have taken from 19 years of dating.